Single Parent Children Bill of Rights
 
The Right to openly express love for both Mom and dad
The Right to have the address and telephone number of the noncustodial parent.
The Right not to be blamed for the divorce/separation.
The Right to be cared for properly both emotionally and physically.
The Right to be listened to and accepted as a person with feelings and needs.
The Right not to be place in the position of "negative message carrier."
The Right not to be asked to be "the family spy."
The Right not to be told negative information about their parent or grand parent.
The Right to be informed of any decisions that involve them and the reasons as to why and how they were made.
The Right to honest answers to their questions as best as you are able.
The Right not to be interrogated after a visit with the other parent.
The Right not to be asked to lie or cover up for a parent.
The Right to the knowledge of the "nuts and bolts" of the custody arrangements.
The Right not to be used as a weapon of anger to the former spouse.
The Right to heal properly from the hurt and pain that accompanies a separation/divorce.
The Right to remain active in both parents' lives.
The Right to understand that their parents are human, too, and are also experiencing great hurt.
The Right to know, understand and believe that they are still part of a family. This family now has two locations.
The Right to be loved unconditionally.
 
 
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